It has been contemplated whether or not a parent’s divorce really impacts teens. Some might argue, that divorce can lead to one having a better childhood and state of mind, rather than remaining with parents who constantly argue and fight. However, in reality, it is not about separation, but the effect it can have on a teen who might end up having psychological and behavioral changes. Throughout the process, one’s mind can change immensely just like how actions will change in a teen. Divorce can leave a teen dealing with social and emotional withdrawal, abusive behavior, and self-protective fear.
Embattled parents who have divorced not only face problems themselves but, more so the ones affected are teens. Teens who have divorced parents have higher chances of showing social and emotional withdrawal. For example, teens might exhibit more health and behavioral problems such as drug abuse and will end up in more crime involved situations according to “The Effects of Divorce on America” (Fagan & Rector 1). Not only is it, about the changes of a teens state of mind but, rather the withdrawal teens go through in result of a parent’s separation. One might experience distance from family and even the world around. To include, teens, are more probable to have a weakened relationship with their parents and might experience the breakdown of their own family and self-being (Fagan & Rector 4).
Nonetheless, a teen who is left to deal with self-inflicting pain and self-being damage is the main result of divorce. Without a doubt, teens who have experienced or are experiencing the trouble of divorce most likely end up being less involved in school and are more likely to drop out of high school. To back it up, data and research have shown that teens are more susceptible and probable of having a low and staggering academical understanding or grasp of subjects like reading, spelling, and mathematics (Adelson 1). Unfortunately, the biggest downfall or take away a teen deals with because of divorce is anxiety, aggressiveness towards others, and lower self-control or self-protective fear meaning the constant feeling or instinct for one to protect themselves against others (Adelson 1).
In contradiction, some might argue that divorce can lead a teen to improve their behavior, grades, and school focus in willingness to keep their parent’s together. Other positive effects of divorce to be argued are that parents put forth more effort to spend quality time with their child or children making divorce something that results in closer single and co-parenting relationships (Effects on Children 1). Including, it is said to be that teens encounter divorce as something better like a free and peaceful home environment to live in. In comparison, to such bad effects like teens being deprived of their peace and security by constant arguing and fighting. Overall, the opposing view claims that divorce is one of life’s loopholes in which it can affect teens the way teens live, however on the bright side, it does not end or deconstruct family relationships (Pediatr 1). More so it can be a way to build a new and possible future for teens to work through their feelings and hardships.
In brief, divorce can immensely impact and affect a teen leaving one to pick up the pieces of an adolescent who suffered and lived through social and emotional withdrawal and constant behavioral issues. Teens are impacted by their parent’s divorce, leaving them vulnerable and fragile. However, the only thing someone can do is provide support to pull back one from constant sorrow and change. Thus, making the outcomes of divorce and separation inevitable, which shows that with every cause like divorce, there are effects and in this case teens are the ones being affected.